We (Bart stoppelenburg and Thijs Bos) started working at Sogeti Netherlands a little more over a year ago, this is also how long we are familiar with Drupal. Our presentation is about our first introduction to Drupal. What our experiences are, what we have found problematic and how we think these problems can be avoided in future for new Drupal users. But is it also about what experienced Drupal users can do to help the new Drupal users. We give our presentation on the basis of a dating analogy.